The new mother has not stopped being a woman, she wants to feel and experience her orgasm, but her intimate and sexual life has changed.
After giving birth, the woman's body and mind change. The first months the woman should get used to sexual intercourse and try to return to normality of fullness, or the maximum pleasure sexual with orgasms. Next, we are going to explain the reasons why a woman and mother should enjoy orgasms.
Sex life after being a mother
The way of experiencing sex after having a baby changes, especially at the beginning. The adaptation extends to all areas surrounding women. The body is recovering from the physical disorder. Wounds take time to heal and as for the sexual issue, to feel pleasure again, specifically with orgasms in women, becomes somewhat expensive.
Many of They mistakenly believe that everything will quickly return to its normal course, and among many other things, the sexual issue takes time to be a small part of what it was. Many women and mothers say they lose their sexual desire, and at the same time others complain about their discomfort and their lack of lubrication when having sex. With all this reaching orgasm seems almost unlikely at the moment.
Trying to achieve orgasms
There are many women and mothers, who say they lose their sexual desire, and at the same time, others lament their discomfort and their lack of lubrication when having sex.
When the woman feels quite recovered, the ideal is to resume full sexual intercourse after the quarantine. With Caesarean section , it can be tried a little earlier, if the woman is strong. As long as the initiated mother does not feel uncomfortable, or "obligated," in the sense of pleasing her partner, she can calmly test the waters. Choose to try gently, with caresses, sexual games, renew postures, change the way of initiating the sexual act, and without forgetting that the body is not at one hundred percent, especially if there were tears and there are still bleeding.
The woman who is now a mother feels fearful and fragile. You fear losing your sexual appetite, not feeling an orgasm, or being able to give your partner good intimate moments. However, both of you must be patient. Everything usually returns to normal in due course. Now the baby and tiredness often occupy much of the mother's thoughts. In addition, lubricants can be great allies when it comes to seeking intimacy and complicity.
The couple: support and understanding
The couple is fundamental in the relationship. It must be understanding and give time and space to the woman, who sometimes does not feel prepared or herself. The new mother has not stopped being a woman and has her sexual needs, although the libido is more sleepy. You want to feel and experience your orgasms, but their intimacy has changed and displays of affection must follow each other to allow something to be achieved.
If the woman breastfeeds her child, she will notice more vaginal dryness due to the decrease in estrogen and this can cause pain when having sex. Lubricating gels and cream, and a lot of calm and passion when starting intimate relationships, will facilitate the enjoyment of the sexual act. It is recommended that the woman talk with her partner. Explain your situation and concern to him in order to understand each other and avoid discomfort. A less uncomfortable position is her on top of the man, with which she may be the one who regulates how the penetration is to occur.