Pregnancy is an incredibly beautiful stage for any woman. We have the possibility of harboring life within us and of bringing life to our world. It is true that during pregnancy there are beautiful things but also other things that are not as idyllic as some commercial films try to make us believe. In a commercial movie, pregnancy is a magical moment that is hardly noticeable and that childbirth is an easy time without complications.
But pregnancy and childbirth is more than all this and the experience can be positive or negative depending on how each woman experiences it. It is true that there are women who suffer more, others who suffer less, some have stretch marks and some have perfect skin. Each woman is a world and each pregnancy and childbirth is also different. But there are some things that nobody is going to tell you, because even in Google we do not like to mention. Until now!
You are going to have strange dreams
You may have strange dreams and they may not be every night, but when you do ... you will remember and wonder what it might mean. These strange dreams are lived dreams that will make you feel things that you cannot even feel in real life. Maybe you dream of the birth of your baby, that your baby is an animal, that you cheat on your partner, that you have a sexual adventure, that you are no longer pregnant, that you get lost in the crowd, that you get lost in the middle of the sea, that there is a world apocalypse, etc.
You will catch a cold
In order not to get constipated, you must protect yourself well, but it seems that the cold virus has a certain role for pregnant women, since they are usually victims of the cold even if they have been vaccinated against the flu. The truth is that if you have the flu vaccine, the cold will be less aggressive than if you do not have it. But if you catch a cold, you will have snot, a lot of snot. If you catch a cold and you are not feeling well, you should see your doctor because you cannot medicate with any medicine as it can be detrimental to the development of your baby.
You need more underwear
You will need pre-breast underwear because your normal panties may be too small to be comfortable with them on. Another option is to buy panties with a more flexible fabric so that they adapt to the changes that your body will undergo over the months. Y you will also need to have some extra panties because during pregnancy you sweat a lot between the legs, so the ideal is that you change your panties at least twice a day to avoid fungal infections.
You will want to clean the house and have everything very tidy
This will be almost compulsive. Nobody tells you that as the pregnancy progresses you will feel the need to have your whole home clean and everything in good order, especially your baby's bedroom. It is possible that one day you wake up and have the compulsive urge to clean and tidy everything, move the furniture and leave everything in a way that makes you feel good. You will not even notice the exhaustion of pregnancy, because you just want everything to be well ordered. You will feel incredibly good and this will happen from week 20. But if you have these irredeemable desires to move furniture and clean, I advise you to ask for help to avoid unnecessary fatigue or pain due to too much effort.
You will feel pain, many pain
It is especially at the end of pregnancy when the pain will begin to be more noticeable. You will notice pain in the hips, in the back and you will even have sciatica. It's true, you're only pregnant but It will seem that you are 50 years older suddenly because of the pain you may feel. Although I must also say that there are some lucky women who do not feel any pain during the time of delivery.
But it is normal that you feel pain, your hips expand, your pelvis and your feet feel great pressure due to the weight of the baby in your belly. But you will also feel pain in your hands and wrists, you may even feel pain in your thumbs! About week 30 of pregnancy, there are women who suffer from carpal tunnel syndrome.
You may have to put up with offensive comments
There may be considerate people who won't tell you about it because they know how bad it feels (especially other empathetic moms). But it is possible that the closer you are to delivery, the more you have to put up with some inappropriate comments. They may tell you that you have become too fat, that in a previous pregnancy you did not take on so many kilos, that later it will cost you a lot to take it off, that it seems that your face is more swollen, that if you are 30 weeks when you are 15 ... but they are comments that you simply have to stop listening to.
You can get mad very fast
It is possible that you live your pregnancy happily, that you have many things to enjoy every day ... you love being pregnant and you hardly have any pregnancy symptoms, everything seems idyllic. But there is something that you can not escape ... the mood swings. It will be easy for you to get angry about anything at any time, and Even if you know that you are getting angry and if it is normal (without being pregnant) you can control those negative emotions, during pregnancy it is too difficult to do so. But it will be just as easy to get angry about anything like getting excited. Have a pack of tissues in your bag because you will have an easy tear very quickly too ... and the culprits of all this will be hormones, which will not stop being revolutionized during the 9 months of pregnancy!
These are some things that maybe when you get pregnant you don't know what happens, but as I have told you before, each pregnancy is a different world. If you have already gone through a pregnancy, what are the things that you suffered and no one had told you before?
Hello . I don't know if I'm pregnant, but I need answers
I am 15 years old and I have a very strange pansita, it is bigger and it starts from the uterus, I get my period normally and I took a pregnancy test and it came out negative, at night I feel little lebes kicks but then they give me terrible twitching, I inject anti conseptive for 1 year. I have dizziness, my breasts hurt and I really feel pregnant but not if it is true
Hello Fancys, the doubts you ask us would have to be solved by a doctor, I know you are very young, but you should visit your gynecologist if you have it, and if not, the doctor you usually go to.
A hug and that everything goes very well.)
hello .. I have one symptom, I say strange because supposedly I have cut my trunk 5 years ago, I have a lot of acidity, my breasts hurt, they feel full and bigger, a lot of desire to go to the bathroom, at dawn I get sciatica, when I eat lunch I'm very sleepy and I feel pain as if my period was going to come down ... 13 days ago I took my period off, I was two months late before I got off. What would these symptoms be? They gave me those same discomforts when I got pregnant with my girl.
Hello, I have a sister-in-law who is a little over a month pregnant. During the day she feels fine, but when night comes she suffers severe pain in her stomach and back and cannot move. They did an ultrasound and they told him that everything was fine, but the night comes and he continues to have those pains. It is normal, because I have three children and that never happened to me. Thank you.
Hello Ursula, we cannot know what happens to your sister-in-law, but she could make an appointment with the gynecologist, who will surely clarify things for her. A hug and that everything goes well.
Hello, you know I have doubts that it makes me want to eat things that I did not eat before and I have a lot of acidity and I have not menstruated a month ago but I was taking care of myself sometimes I feel like something beats on the left or right side of my pan ?