Children tease parents for two main reasons: they want to get away with it and / or they don't want to feel bad. So in an effort to avoid feeling sad or disappointed, a child may tease you to do what he wants you to do. It is important that you teach your children to deal with uncomfortable emotions such as anxiety, sadness or anger. Emotion regulation is an important skill that will serve your child in life.
Proactively teach your child healthy coping skills that will help him manage his feelings in a socially acceptable way. For example, teach him to color pictures when he is sad, or teach him to write in a journal when he is angry. Once you are better able to control your feelings, you will be less desperate to try to control other people's behavior.
Prevent whining for not controlling feelings
If your child when upset has a habit of whining or teasing others, you need to step back and observe your general parenting practices. Take steps to encourage gratitude and teach your child to be grateful for what they have. Then you will be less likely to insist that you always need more.
Furthermore, You should make it a habit to talk about your needs and desires, this way you will enhance communication and your children will feel more trust in you. When something happens to them, your children will feel able to tell you what is happening to them. You should also assess what your needs are… it is important to begin to understand what the needs are and what the preferences are. Children if they see in you that you get angry if you don't eat chocolate, they can get angry if they can't have ice cream for dessert.