Within the series of posts to talk about the game and the most appropriate toys for each age, we still had to focus on adolescents, who although sometimes we forget, still need to play (in fact, the game is still beneficial still in adulthood). And if during early childhood, playing is beneficial, for adolescents it is a complement that allows the development and strengthening of different physical, mental, emotional, rational and affective capacities and abilities; according to the results of a study led by Sarah Blakemore and published in The Social Brain Development.
From 10 years in many cases, and more widely 12, the traditional toy loses its importance, and is replaced by video games, sports and board games; in practice it is not always a substitution, because they can complement each other. Girls and boys also lose some interest in reading during early adolescence, but if the habit was developed when they were young, maybe they will return to it later. Sometimes we read that technology favors individualism, but it is proven that the second is not a direct consequence; And also in families like mine, experience rules: my son is a geek and sometimes he does play alone ... But many other times he plays with his sister, his parents, the neighbors, his best friend, his dating group, or online, the The tendency is more to share the game than to enjoy it alone, although being at their level is impossible for us.
A few years ago from the Children's Play Observatory, parents were assured that 'play is very important as an effective means of communication that favors communication and understanding between parents and children at these ages'; so do not hesitate to share games when they ask, or to propose shared game moments. Adult involvement enhances motivation and helps to create lasting bonds.
How to choose toys for teens: keep in mind that ...
Your child is a child because he is still a minor, but he faces a stage of great changes that will lead to coming of ageThe changes range from the most obvious aspects (physical, social, intellectual, etc.) to hormonal development and brain maturation. One of the most immediate consequences is the 'separation' of the parentsThey have their own projects, they hang out with whomever they want, they decide on their hobbies, they develop abstract and critical thinking; 'nothing new under the sun, we've been there too. Unless you have indications that they might have a serious problem, you shouldn't interfere; you're still a family, but the contribution of teenagers changes compared to previous stages.
Since they need time to be with themselves, get to know each other better and build their identity, the desire to tinker continuously ends up disappearing, it is not worrying
Choosing well requires observing and listeningWhat are they passionate about? Who do they play with? Where will they play? Do they prefer cognitive challenges or physical experiences? Also, reading the information on the box helps: recommended age, materials, number of players, and duration if it's a board game. That "fine fit" avoids frustrations when a game is too simple or too complex.
How to choose toys for teenagers: what toys to give them?
I speak in general terms of a very wide age group (from 10 to 16 years approximately), it is difficult to give advice that answers all your doubts because interests change considerably according to the age of your child, and however everything is marked by the maturation itself. A 12-year-old may still be interested in remote-controlled vehicles, a 10-year-old may not; There are those who were not fond of board games at 8, and they are at 15; Some accept video games with a PEGI rating lower than 16 at 15, and others demand them at 13.
To refine your choice, consider four key questions: who will play (alone, with siblings, with friends), where will he play (interior, exterior, travel), what challenge does it propose? (strategy, creativity, cooperation, physical skill) and what values ​​does it convey? (inclusion, respect, sustainability). Reading the instructions and the manufacturer's data sheet provides clues about components, starting times, and variation options for guarantee replayability.
But there seems to be a consensus that 'the game' still adds values ​​and provides learning, and the best thing is that it does it in a fun wayIt also allows you to expand and improve social relationships and increase interpersonal skills. Not to mention that it's a source of happiness. Furthermore, it's not all about store-bought toys: everyday and natural materials (basic DIY tools, supervised climbing ropes, objects for photography or cooking) open avenues for creative exploration.
Your teenager may like to play:
- Meccans and construction of models.
- Strategy board games.
- Scientific and experimentation toys.
- Remote control vehicles.
- Video game.
- Electronic games.
- Building games.
- Complex mathematical games.
- Role playing games.
- Anatomical model or globe, if you are interested in knowledge.
- Advanced STEM kits (robotics, block programming and creative electronics).
- 3D printing and basic digital modeling.
- Musical instruments, MIDI controllers, and production apps.
- cooperative games and tabletop escape rooms to strengthen collaboration.
- Artistic activities: lettering, watercolor, collage, photography and editing.
- sports and outdoor equipment (scooters, slackline, supervised indoor climbing equipment).
- Narrative and social deduction games for large groups.
- Books, comics and graphic novels related to their interests.
You can also give away instruments and sports equipment, because it is an age in which hobbies are defined
To facilitate agreement on gift-giving dates, many families apply the four gifts rule1) something they want, 2) something they need, 3) something to read, and 4) something to take with them. This guideline avoids overabundance and prioritizes conscious and varied choices.
How to choose toys for teenagers: thinking about safety
Remember that it is convenient to take it into account also when they grow: CE markingSupervise children using electric toys (if the child is under 13 or 14 years old), and carefully select digital content to avoid overexposure to inappropriate material. Also, be cautious with remote-controlled vehicles, as children under 12 may not have the necessary dexterity.
Broaden your safety perspective with practical criteria: the toy must be strong and durablewithout sharp edges or easily detachable parts. Check that the packaging clearly indicates the manufacturer/distributor and warnings (e.g., small parts not recommended). Choose non-toxic materials and prioritizes environmentally responsible processes.
In digital content, rely on classification. PEGI For age and descriptors (violence, fear, strong language, in-app purchases, online gaming). Activate parental controls, disable in-app purchases, and configure privacy settings on consoles and mobile devices. Talk as a family Regarding online gaming, cyberbullying, and screen time: negotiating realistic schedules, active breaks, and screen-free spaces promotes a healthy balance.
Safety is also social and emotional: avoid toys warlike or that reinforce stereotypes (sexist, racist, or discriminatory). Encourage inclusive proposals open to each teenager's taste, and remember that share the decision Purchase reduces conflicts and improves engagement with the game.
If you opt for radio-controlled vehicles, drones, or electric scooters, check the usage regulations in your area and establish clear rules. spaces and protections (helmet, knee pads, goggles). In arts and science, delimit the work area and supervise the use of tools and reagents following the manufacturer's instructions.
I finish by remembering that their interests always 'go ahead' when you choose what you are going to give them. Take your time, and visit different stores and commercial surfacesAllow me to accompany you (the surprise at these ages is not so decisive) and to suggest, even if you do the purchase alone on another occasion. And do not forget to review our content recommending toys for babies, Small children, and Children from 6 to 10 years.
As general guidelines that always add up: think about Few toys but very playable and varied; rotating them prevents boredom; value the quality over fashionIt allows them to incorporate real hobbies (music, sports, cooking, photography); and it dedicates time to playing with them, because the best gift Your presence remains. Images — (First) five hanks, (Third) brookfieldlibrary (Last) Darien library.