The protagonists of stories belong to the female sex and are warriors who fight, women who build, investigate ...
The figure of the girl in society, despite having acquired a better position, continues to differ from that of the boy in several points, a permanent sign when she grows up. Parents and educators must promote values of equality where the girl is what she likes. The minor should not be underestimated, but rather award her with the immense power she possesses.
The characterization of the girl
Traditionally as girls they have grown up in the ideal of weakness, fragility, even submission, secondary plane or naivety. From little girls grow up listening to stories about princesses who are saved by the prince. The prince will give them the life they want because alone they would be subject to bad life. Do not let the girl consider that she cannot match, even surpass the man. Now many homes are educated in footing, the same as in educational institutions. Father and mother must expose themselves in shared tasks so that the girl sees and understands that not only the mother should be that self-sacrificing housewife.
Far from reality, the mother resurfaces from those ideals and wants her daughter not to assimilate those badly exposed topics. Years ago, an awakening of generations of female voices are manifested and refuse to be considered a complement of man. Obviously many women stand out for positions of power and high responsibility where men are in charge. Something that should be fully normalized and assimilated.
I want to be a hero, not a princess
As mothers, you have to break stereotypes regarding the role of man and woman. La mother showing your resistance to your daughter will make her think that she is capable of anything. It will not be a complicated task since the mother is, without objection, a figure full of courage and strength physical and mental. When she is small, the minor will absorb the teachings that are imparted to her.
The girl must be allowed to decide and be. The fact of buying a toy Considered only as a girl and depriving him of one as a boy already denotes obstacles, the same happens with the colors of the clothes or garments. Girls must be educated and trained in love of neighbor and freedom of thought. The girls They must understand that the first person who should love them is themselves and that no one has the right to miss them.. Girls can be girls, with strong feelings and sensitivity, and also be brave and courageous.
Educate in a life rich in health and ethics
The girl must be aware that the world is at her feet and can go for what she wants with love, effort, intelligence and without barriers that stop her.
It is positive that the girl from a very young age be educated in responsibility, freedom, effort, improvement ..., without limitations no insecurities. The girl must be aware that the world is at her feet and can go for what she wants with love, effort, intelligence and without barriers that stop her. As parents, the girl must be endowed with ideals that help to strengthen her self-esteem and instill security in her. The girl should trust herself and not be intimidated by anyone.
Nowadays there are not only dolls that walk around baby carriages or wear princess or wedding dresses. Many brands already market dolls that wear heroine costumes and are preparing to complete missions, ride waves and save the world from evildoers. Discriminatory values and marked gender roles are not so evident. The example for a girl should be someone with the ability to eat the world. In fact, cinema and television are also betting on this idea. The protagonists of stories belong to the female sex and are warriors who fight, women who build, investigate, they enter into magical and dark forests ...
The teacher for a girl: Her mother
For a girl the best example is that of her mother. Of course she is his first inspiration and heroine. Who is stronger than a mother, someone tireless and with an incomparable drive to others. Children must understand that they are equal to each other, that outdated beliefs of what is or is not girls do not make any sense. However, much remains to be done.
The fact that a girl almost always sees her mother cooking or washing will surely lead her to have a greater predilection for these types of toys. Surely internalize, despite being explained otherwise, that they are for the female sex. If advertising or certain social areas change it is necessary to change the mentality of those closest to that girl.