We have all been children at one time or another. Surely we remember how in some places they called our attention for being too noisy. How we drove our parents crazy in the family summer seasons! Children's things in short. But not long ago, many people prefer places, such as hotels, that are not allowed access with children. It seems crazy; prohibit entry to children. But yes, many places are taking this "no kids" alternative.
Everything is driven by the desire for tranquility of the person himself who takes this option, either to travel or to stay somewhere. There are also many fathers and mothers who, to rest from what it means to have a small child in their head 24 hours a day, go to these places. But, what is it that has caused that there are public places in which children are not allowed to enter?
Today's children… or today's adults?
Personally, I am not a fan of blaming young children for the "wrong" they do. That is, they must be responsible, but yesand his example to follow is someone who draws attention wherever he goes, let's not hope that the child will be less. There is also the possibility that this little one feels ashamed of his parents, something already more worrying for him.
Today we are tired. We live exhausted, from the rush, from work, from stress. We don't have patience; few of us would be able to endure all day with a smile and applauding everything our son does. Nevertheless, it is more common for people without children to want to stay in child-free hotels. I don't know about you, but I didn't empathize with the children's collective until I became a mother.
But why do children have to pay? There are many places where there is an adult louder than any child; how to bypass the chicken coops that form on some train or plane trips. Why then are noisy adults and children not measured with the same bar?
Discrimination against a group
Because of the hashtag on twitter that went viral as # HotelesSinNiños, there were many comments in which people blamed the babies' parents. You could read how parents were reprimanded for not teaching their children the basic rules of coexistence; to remain silent when necessary and to moderate the tone of voice (something that the little ones do not control very well).
Families with children, don't worry. Children are not allowed to enter the hotels. The advertising of certain hotels may be directed to one audience or another, such as "hotels for adults only", but no one can forbid you to enter with your children anywhere. It is totally discriminatory. What if black people were banned from certain establishments? Well, we would travel more than 100 years back in time. Can not be; civilization has to advance.
Parents have to teach their children the basic rules of coexistence. These behaviors are not the children's fault.
Work education with our children
There is nothing better to learn than your own experience. But, to finish the topic about adults who do not want to share a stay with children, here is my opinion. If you don't like children, you have to know that a lot of people don't like people. Even so in their day to day they have to deal with them because it is part of life. You can always buy an island, make a hotel there and be the only tenant; You can invite all the adults in the world! But that won't give you peace of mind.
Most of the times that I have traveled, and it has been to many places, it has been Adults and parents themselves the heaviest in the room. Adults screwed up with alcohol on hotel pool nights who wouldn't shut up or dive; adults who pass through the corridors of the hotel talking on the phone as if the rest of us in bed care about their conversation.
And traveling, we cannot help children cry. I would also cry if they put me in a place full of adults who do not give you a smile and who look at you with the face of few friends. Remember, We have all been children and they are not to blame for the little discipline (always positive) imparted by their parents. A smile and a kind word to the most "scandalous" can give you a few minutes of calm. But be careful when asking adults for silence.