Children let their mother know their discomfort or discomfort and they are themselves, without any fear.
On many occasions, the reasons that affect children becoming more angry or having more tantrums when their mothers are with them have been questioned. What causes a child who loves his mother so much to give him a hard time? In this article we are going to give some keys.
Children and their bad behavior
Young children get angry, misbehave, and have more severe temper tantrums between 1 and 3 years. It is an age when still unable to communicate clearly enough or as they wanted, or balance their emotions, so there is frustration or fear in them. Parents often look at their children strangely and tell them that they do not explain themselves well. This can lead them to feel bad and misunderstood, because they still don't know how to do better. When in doubt with certain behaviors, the pediatrician can be consulted, without the need for an alarm. The time will go in favor of the emotional and behavioral development of the child.
Children do not misbehave with everyone. It will be common to see a shy or distrustful child with an adult whom he knows little, and the opposite will happen when he is at home. When a child looks like this, it is said that he is in love or spoiled, something that does not always correspond to reality. The child, like an adult, opens up to whom he knows more and spends more time. With this attitude the mother and the parent can decide whether or not the child is able to attend certain events or stay with other people.
The mother: the whole of the child
A child is said to be mad when he behaves worse towards his mother. Children generally do not hide under false pretenses with the person they know and love the most.
Children who drink breastmilk they perceive by the smell of their mother who is in the room and cry or wake up. Pheromones influence these behaviors. It is said in a study that pheromones are also the cause of children choosing their mothers to make them aware of their tantrums and discomfort. Children behave worse with them. The mother understands her son's reactions better than anyone, so the son feels confident to act right or wrong as he feels. For the mother, the best thing is to act with patience and love, knowing how to set limits.
It is unequivocal that people behave differently with someone they know, understand, see daily, and love deeply, more than with another person. The mother is his everything for a child, it is whom he has known since before birth and the link it is deep and intense. A child behaves as he is at all times with his mother, he does not have to pretend or hold back. The child is not shy about showing indignation or drawing her attention, it is more he wants to do it and awaken feelings in her. If he misbehaves, his mother will be more aware, will attend to him, will reprimand and will not leave him.